Guide to Gay Men’s Fetish
Sexual or erotic fetishism occurs when a person is aroused by a body part, object or situation that is not normally viewed as being sexual, and a key characteristic is that the focus of the fetish is typically objectified and depersonalized. So for example a common gay men’s fetish might involve PVC underwear. For the person with this kind of fetish it is the underwear itself the causes a sexual reaction, regardless of who is wearing it, so the underwear takes a sexual preference over the people involved in the intimate encounter. In some extreme cases the object of the fetish may even exist as an exclusive focus for sexual gratification and the person with the fetish may find that they cannot achieve any meaningful release without the inclusion of the fetish in each sexual encounter.
There are many different fetishes, and a large number of these cross over genders and sexual orientations. Clothing and fabric fixations are thought to be the most common types of both straight and gay men’s fetish, and these can include sexual attractions to uniforms, restrictive clothing, leather, PVC, latex, spandex, fur fabrics and costumes. The fetishist may take pleasure from wearing these clothes or seeing them being worn, or by may even derive satisfaction from simply collecting these garments and displaying them. A clothing fetish is quite different from paraphilia, which is when garments are worn enhance looks and attract attention such as sexy underwear, tight jeans or high heels, as this is merely an appreciation of the appearance enhancing effects of certain types of clothing, and the clothing itself is not the exclusive object of sexual arousal.
Almost any garment can be a fetish, but there are some common items of clothing that appear regular as gay men’s fetish objects and these can include footwear, tight and revealing underwear and uniforms. Certain fabrics can also be the object of gay men’s fetish attractions such as the look, smell and feel of fur, leather, spandex, PVC or latex. Here are just a few common types of gay men’s fetish clothing:
• Jackets – surprisingly studies have shown that jackets are the third most popular item for both straight and gay men’s fetish, after shoes and uniforms/costumes, and this type of fetish is usually associated with a sexual attraction towards PVC or leather jackets (closely linked with bondage and domination games) and also padded nylon jackets. Many people with a fetish attraction to jackets get particularly excited by the idea of them being worn with either nothing on underneath, or just some sexy, skimpy bits of underwear.
• Restrictive Clothing – clothing that limits movement is another popular gay men’s fetish and is also closely associated with bondage, and can include high heeled footwear, corsets, tight PVC catsuits and spandex or Lycra zentai suits. Both straight and gay men with this type of fetish can enjoy wearing restrictive clothing normally associated with women’s wear such as corsets and hobble skirts, (long tight skirts made of latex and PVC which restrict walking), but do not wish to be labeled as transvestites, as it is the particular item of clothing that they find arousing and want to experience, not women’s clothing as a whole.
• Underwear – erotic gay men’s fetish underwear is available in many different styles and designs from micro bikinis which draw the penis back and hold it between the legs creating a smooth, feminized front, through to the classic skin hugging penis sleeves and pouches, and gay men’s fetish underwear is available in many different materials including PVC, leather, spandex, Lycra and lace.
• Uniforms and Costumes – uniforms and costumes are very popular gay men’s fetish clothing, and those common preferences include typically masculine stereotypes such as policemen, soldiers, cowboys, construction workers, doctors and even judges. Uniforms and costumes bring a titivating sense of reality to game play, so if you are aroused by the thought of being handcuffed and detained by a dominating authority figure then dressing your playmate in a policeman’s outfit can heighten the sense of awareness and bring a greater feeling of sexual satisfaction and fulfillment.
• Glasses – this is another surprisingly popular straight and gay men’s fetish, and an entire genre of pornography dubbed ‘specs appeal’ has developed to fulfill this sexual need, and also when this appears in adult anime it is known as meganekko. For those with this fetish sexual encounters can be heightened by the inclusion of glasses (either wearing them or seeing them being worn by a playmate), and ejaculation on the glasses may also play a large part in the overall fetish.
A whole genre of pornography is devoted entirely to medical fetishes, and this can include fetishes which revolve around particular medical implements or treatments and also ‘gynomania’, which explores hardcore sexual interaction between nurses, doctors and patients in the settings of doctors offices and hospitals. There are a number of adult websites that feature gynomania images and videos which can satisfy both straight and gay men’s fetish for medical clothing, objects and situations including:
• TheNightNurse.com (www.theni
Fisting is a type of hardcore gay men’s fetish sex play that involves inserting the hand into the anus and then gently balling the fingers together into a fist when fully inserted. This is considered a fetish as it is not a conventional part of gay sex, and the number of gay men that enjoy it are small compared to those that enjoy other forms of anal sex. Lesbians and heterosexual women also enjoy fisting, as well as a small percentage of straight men.
Fisting can be very pleasurable for gay men, but it is an extreme form of play and must be carried out carefully to avoid causing unnecessary pain. The anus contains both internal and external sensitive sphincter muscles, and each person will react differently to penetration, so it helps if you have explored your body’s own reaction to anal penetration before you try fisting, so that you understand your own limits. Fisting provides an acute level of contact against the sphincter and prostate, which can result in intense sexual gratification, but you will need to feel completely comfortable when engaging in fisting so that you can relax enough to prevent pain, and proper lubrication also helps to increase sexual pleasure and reduce discomfort.
Fisting can be very sexually rewarding, but it is an extreme gay men’s fetish which can cause anal fissures and other problems if not done carefully and correctly, so always stop if you feel uncomfortable, and don’t be embarrassed to seek advice from a medical adviser if you are still experiencing pain a few days later.
Dildos are popular adult gay men’s fetish toys and are widely available from both regular bricks and mortar sex shops and specialist online adult clothing and accessories stores. Dildos are typically made of flexible synthetic rubber which creates a firm and realistic penis substitute, and come in a whole range of different colors, textures and sizes to suit almost any gay men’s fetish. Dildos objectify the penis, and particular kinds can be the focus of many gay men’s fetish fixations, and they can be used to create intense anal sex sessions that provide a lot of sexual gratification. Many straight men also enjoy the inclusion of dildos into sex games, so that they can experience the intense penetration of anal sex, whilst at the same time penetrating their partner or receiving oral sex, and there are a number of harness dildo kits that can allow women to simulate penetration, both on male and female partners.
Dildos are versatile and fun, and make great adult toys to spice up a relationship and they are also safe and affordable, and easy to buy online.
Butt plugs are a type of dildo and a popular gay men’s fetish as they allow anal penetration as part of sex play or masturbation. There are a number of butt plug designs from companies such as Koalaswim.com that are integrated into underwear and bikini style briefs, and this allows gay and straight men who enjoy anal penetration to fix a 3 inch or 6 inch butt plug dildo into place, and then wear it comfortably for as long as they desire. Wearing a butt plug discreetly in public can be incredible arousing, and if your partner has a fetish for dildos it can be an serious turn on for them to know you are being penetrated by a butt plug whilst standing next to them, or to wear one themselves when they go out in the evening or just to pop down to the shops.
ghtnurse.com) – this is aimed more at straight men, and features hardcore medical sex with doctors and nurses masturbating and engaging in naughty and dirty sex in the doctors office and on hospital wards.
• GayMedicalExam.com (www. gaymedicalexam.com – gay men’s fetish for all things medical can be satisfied on this website which features hardcore pictures of hot male doctors, patients and nurses getting it on.
You can buy doctors and nurses uniforms from adult clothing websites, fancy dress stores and sex shops, and these to bring a thrilling sense of reality to your sex games. Just remember though it is illegal to pose as a qualified medical practitioner so don’t take your games too far!
Partialism is straight or gay men’s fetish for particular body parts, which are not typically viewed as being erotic. For example the breasts, buttocks and genitals are consider to be conventional sexual turn ons, but the hands, feet and ears are much less common, and would be considered to be a straight or gay men’s fetish if they caused a particular sense of arousal. Hair can also be a straight or gay men’s fetish, and it particularly long black, red or blond hair seems to be a common turn on, and someone with a fetish for a certain type of hair (or lack of it) will be aroused just by seeing this hair or by touching it, objectifying it so that it is placed before the person themselves in terms of sexual arousal.
Another common straight and gay men’s fetish is for tattoos and body piercings and this is sometimes known as ‘stigmatophilia’. A whole genre of pornography is devoted to tattoos and body art, and it is common for porn stars across the genres to have tattoos and various body piercings either on the genitals or other parts of the body. People who get aroused by tattoo fetishes can either enjoy getting tattoos and body piercings on their own bodies or watching others get them done, or get highly aroused by looking at images of tattoos and having sexual encounters with those with tattoos and body art.
This interesting straight and gay men fetish is for statues, dolls or mannequins, (or for complete immobility itself), and occurs frequently throughout the human subconscious in literature such as Luis Bunuel's L'Âge d'or, films such as The Cell by director Tarsem Singh and Lars and The Real Girl by director Craig Gillispie and also photographs by prominent artists such as Hans Bellmer, Helmut Newton, Morton Bartlett and Bernard Faucon. Also sex dolls are very popular and are sold in high numbers through sex shops and online adult stores all around the world.
This fetish may manifest as the desire for sexual contact with the mannequin or stature, or the thought or sexual encounters with an animated, inanimate object, or the desire for being transformed into an immobile stature themselves (commonly through the use of latex or rubber clothing and sheeting to completely bind and restrict the body). This also crosses over to Pygmalionism, which is a sexual attraction to an object you have created yourself.
There are a number of gay men’s fetish fixations, and these can take a range of forms from clothing through to imamate objects, and are often shared by so many other people that they have developed whole genres of pornography and art all to themselves, where like minded people can come together and enjoy their focus of their desire.
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